Overwhelming

OK so, a lot has been going on. I am a little bit of a stressed out emotional wreck! Braxton has hit his terrible 2's. He screams at everything! Instead of communication he just screams! It is so frustrating. At times I just don't know what to do. I hope this is something he will grow out of.
I have tried ignoring it, yelling back, talking calmly, spanking his butt and putting him in his room. It still continues! UGH! Talk about feeling like a bad parent! We were in the store yesterday and he kept screaming and hitting me. I tried quietly to tell him no and to stop hitting me. He just kept going. It got to the point where I had to just walk away and let Rick deal with him. And of course he stopped. Some times I just think he hates me!
ON top of having to deal with that I feel like we are being pushed out of our house. I know my parents don't want us here anymore. Now that I am having another baby it seems like they really don't want us here. So I am on a hunt for a place to live. Delaware is so expensive and it is hard to find a decent place that we can afford that is not in the ghetto. I don't know what we are going to do. It sucks to have worn out your welcome........
Not to mention how much it hurts to not have your Mom be excited about a new baby coming when she was the one that said she wanted another one less than one year ago! Otherwise we would not have been trying while we were living here!!!!